The Season of Returning – How the Hibernation Affect Creates Winter Rituals

By Jena Lawlor

LIFESTYLE

Edited by Cece Wilson

12/14/20253 min read

Each winter, something subtle happens. The world slows down, the days shrink, the air cools, and suddenly we start craving the familiar. We pull out the same movies, the same books, the same playlists that somehow feel like the season itself. Harry Potter marathons hum in the background like snowfall. Michael Bublé thaws from hibernation right on schedule. Your social media feeds fill up with Love, Actually clips.

These aren’t just habits. They’re rituals, small emotional checkpoints that help us find warmth and stability when everything outside feels frozen or uncertain. They remind us who we’ve been, who we are, and how to feel grounded in repetition.

Why Winter Breeds Ritual

Something about winter turns us inward, both physically and emotionally. The cold, the dark, the shortened days all push us to seek shelter and routine. Inside that stillness, predictability feels comforting.

It’s no coincidence that winter is the season of holidays built on repetition: Christmas, Yule, Hanukkah, New Year’s. They revolve around returning to family, to tradition, to stories that feel timeless. Movies and songs naturally fall into this rhythm. When the air turns cold, our brains almost automatically signal that it’s time for the annual Home Alone rewatch.

There’s also what you might call a hibernation effect. With less daylight and more time indoors, the media we revisit becomes an emotional anchor, something that fills the quiet and creates its own kind of warmth.

The Power of Nostalgia and Memory

Rewatching or rereading something you love feels a bit like opening a time capsule. It brings back not just the story, but the version of yourself who first encountered it. Maybe it’s watching Home Alone with your family, or reading The Night Before Christmas before bed. Even the first few notes of a familiar song can feel like coming home.

Nostalgia works like emotional insulation. Even when the stories are bittersweet, like The Catcher in the Rye or Taylor Swift’s Evermore, they still feel safe because they’re familiar. They carry memories of warmth, belonging, and continuity. Psychologists often say memory and emotion sit closely together in the brain, and revisiting these works reactivates the security they once gave us. That’s why they can bring back a childlike sense of wonder or that unmistakable feeling of “Christmas magic.”

Comfort vs Discovery

Winter is rarely the season for bold new discoveries. Summer pushes us toward novelty and adventure, but winter leans into comfort. We don’t look for stories that surprise us. We look for stories that already know how to soothe us.

Old favourites also change with us. The Family Stone or Home Alone might have been funnier years ago, yet now they feel more emotional, more real. The same story becomes a mirror, showing us how we’ve grown and how much time has passed.

Some people manage to blend comfort with something new, returning to familiar themes in updated forms. Think of modern covers of classic Christmas songs or contemporary retellings of old stories. The ritual stays even if the packaging shifts.

How Stories Become Seasonal Icons

Some media simply feels like winter, even if it isn’t technically about the season. That’s the power of repeated association. Once enough people link something to this time of year, it becomes part of our shared seasonal rhythm.

Snow, family, reflection, longing — all those visual and emotional cues play a role. Harry Potter isn’t a Christmas movie, but the snow at Hogwarts, the sense of found family, and the overall coziness of the world make it feel like one. Albums like Evermore or artists like Michael Bublé have become emotional soundtracks for the same reason. We’ve brought them into our winter rituals so often that they feel woven into the season itself.

The Ritual of Return

Rewatching the same things every winter isn’t laziness or an inability to move on. It’s a kind of emotional maintenance. These rituals give structure to time and help us stay grounded when everything else around us keeps changing.

When we press play, turn the page, or drop the needle on a familiar song, we’re not escaping life. We’re returning to a story that has carried us before. In a season defined by quiet and endings, these rituals remind us that warmth can always be found again

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